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		By: Nom		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-709247</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Nom]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Apr 2021 23:57:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Assertive women are usually single.  There is a reason for that.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Assertive women are usually single.  There is a reason for that.</p>
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		By: S.P		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-644956</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[S.P]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2020 02:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I loved this article thank you for sharing, i’d Just like to say in the luscious world of BDSM ...

I have found the exaggerated forms of obedience and assertiveness (dominance and submission) to not only be clearer with a closer clearer connection in play communication respect and power utterly satisfying and used for deeper partner connections.

Did you know to be submissive in BDSM it’s all about asserting and communicating directly your rules and limits ?
You also have a safe word so you have control all of the time!

It’s also about your Dom fully caring for you and pleasing your every desire.

Here’s a different perspective for you 

Maybe just maybe the obedient woman in all of us is in fact the assertive woman !]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this article thank you for sharing, i’d Just like to say in the luscious world of BDSM &#8230;</p>
<p>I have found the exaggerated forms of obedience and assertiveness (dominance and submission) to not only be clearer with a closer clearer connection in play communication respect and power utterly satisfying and used for deeper partner connections.</p>
<p>Did you know to be submissive in BDSM it’s all about asserting and communicating directly your rules and limits ?<br />
You also have a safe word so you have control all of the time!</p>
<p>It’s also about your Dom fully caring for you and pleasing your every desire.</p>
<p>Here’s a different perspective for you </p>
<p>Maybe just maybe the obedient woman in all of us is in fact the assertive woman !</p>
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		By: Anonymous		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Anonymous]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2017 10:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-518513&quot;&gt;a girl&lt;/a&gt;.

I agree. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-518513">a girl</a>.</p>
<p>I agree. </p>
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		By: Aya Hajime		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-518534</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Aya Hajime]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2017 23:12:03 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-518513&quot;&gt;a girl&lt;/a&gt;.

Definition of assertive

1.confidently aggressive or self-assured; positive: aggressive; dogmatic:
http://www.dictionary.com/browse/assertive

1. confident and direct in claiming one&#039;s rights or putting forward one&#039;s views
2. given to making assertions or bold demands; dogmatic or aggressive
https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/assertive]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-518513">a girl</a>.</p>
<p>Definition of assertive</p>
<p>1.confidently aggressive or self-assured; positive: aggressive; dogmatic:<br />
<a href="http://www.dictionary.com/browse/assertive" rel="nofollow ugc">http://www.dictionary.com/browse/assertive</a></p>
<p>1. confident and direct in claiming one&#8217;s rights or putting forward one&#8217;s views<br />
2. given to making assertions or bold demands; dogmatic or aggressive<br />
<a href="https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/assertive" rel="nofollow ugc">https://www.collinsdictionary.com/us/dictionary/english/assertive</a></p>
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		By: a girl		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-518513</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[a girl]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2017 15:51:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[There are three types of personalities:
1) Submissive (passive people)
2) Aggressive (combative people)
3) Assertive (proactive people) - The right kind.

Don&#039;t confuse these words. Assertiveness is a positive trait meant to be practiced equally by both men and women in life.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are three types of personalities:<br />
1) Submissive (passive people)<br />
2) Aggressive (combative people)<br />
3) Assertive (proactive people) &#8211; The right kind.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t confuse these words. Assertiveness is a positive trait meant to be practiced equally by both men and women in life.</p>
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		By: Sassi		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-3#comment-517937</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sassi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Oct 2017 21:48:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Most guys seem to want both: a woman who&#039;s aggressive in the boardroom and submissive in the bedroom. Someone who&#039;s 100% aggressive or 100% submissive would most likely have difficulty in both the work and home spheres. Best to strive for 50/50. Now - if only men had the same yardstick!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most guys seem to want both: a woman who&#8217;s aggressive in the boardroom and submissive in the bedroom. Someone who&#8217;s 100% aggressive or 100% submissive would most likely have difficulty in both the work and home spheres. Best to strive for 50/50. Now &#8211; if only men had the same yardstick!</p>
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		By: Visakha		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-2#comment-493804</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Visakha]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 May 2017 22:38:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am always obedient. As a woman I am taught that I must always be obedient.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am always obedient. As a woman I am taught that I must always be obedient.</p>
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		By: Ana		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-2#comment-478619</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2016 19:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[&quot;Even more surprising is that Eastern religions such as Buddhism and Hinduism are more in step with Western culture, and do not demand obedience from their women.&quot;

A better way to frame that sentence is &quot;Western culture has caught up with and/or plagiarized from Buddhism and Hinduism regarding Women;s rights and taken it to insane levels!&quot;]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Even more surprising is that Eastern religions such as Buddhism and Hinduism are more in step with Western culture, and do not demand obedience from their women.&#8221;</p>
<p>A better way to frame that sentence is &#8220;Western culture has caught up with and/or plagiarized from Buddhism and Hinduism regarding Women;s rights and taken it to insane levels!&#8221;</p>
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		By: tmitc868		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-2#comment-476942</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[tmitc868]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2016 00:50:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-2#comment-2585&quot;&gt;random_dude&lt;/a&gt;.

If submission is such an attractive characteristic to you, are you a submissive man?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-2#comment-2585">random_dude</a>.</p>
<p>If submission is such an attractive characteristic to you, are you a submissive man?</p>
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		By: Amy		</title>
		<link>https://chataboutyou.com/submissive-women-vs-assertive-women/comment-page-2#comment-475698</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amy]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2016 00:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Women don&#039;t be obident anymore because men come in and try to take advantage of that obidence. Why are we always talkimg about what the women should be doing? Why not talk about what the men should be doing. Because if you think about it men don&#039;t act like men these days but lil boys who want their cake and eat it too.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women don&#8217;t be obident anymore because men come in and try to take advantage of that obidence. Why are we always talkimg about what the women should be doing? Why not talk about what the men should be doing. Because if you think about it men don&#8217;t act like men these days but lil boys who want their cake and eat it too.</p>
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